00:14:20.510 --> 00:14:22.762
I'm gonna show you Dad, okay?

00:14:23.730 --> 00:14:25.440
You ready, Dad?

00:14:34.783 --> 00:14:36.409
Do you hear me?

00:14:39.287 --> 00:14:41.331
Dad, can you see him?

00:14:53.551 --> 00:14:55.553
You don't look Vietnamese.

00:15:03.686 --> 00:15:06.856
I'm sorry that it got to
the situation like this.

00:15:07.482 --> 00:15:11.277
I was a soldier…
And, you know…

00:15:12.278 --> 00:15:15.949
I used to go into the city to…
To meet his mother.

00:15:16.420 --> 00:15:18.218
I liked his mother.

00:15:18.243 --> 00:15:21.329
She was good…
She was a good person.

00:15:32.674 --> 00:15:34.430
His mother.

00:15:38.972 --> 00:15:42.684
- Can you see her?
- Wait. Let me see.

00:15:43.560 --> 00:15:45.520
Oh my goodness…

00:15:46.729 --> 00:15:48.523
It's not…

00:15:50.442 --> 00:15:51.985
Yeah…

00:15:52.902 --> 00:15:54.946
Oh my God.

00:15:55.029 --> 00:15:58.867
I don't know.
I can't (remember)…

00:16:05.248 --> 00:16:06.791
Who's the baby crying?

00:16:07.792 --> 00:16:10.503
- It's his grandchild.
- Grandchild?

00:16:10.587 --> 00:16:12.338
Could we see her?

00:16:18.344 --> 00:16:20.930
Great, great grandfather.

00:16:21.681 --> 00:16:23.808
Oh my goodness…

00:16:24.726 --> 00:16:26.394
Can you see him?

00:16:29.647 --> 00:16:31.691
The baby is seven months old.

00:16:32.442 --> 00:16:35.028
Oh, seven months old?

00:16:35.904 --> 00:16:39.481
Beautiful child.
Tell him it's a beautiful child.

00:16:48.358 --> 00:16:50.109
He said that the…

00:16:50.835 --> 00:16:56.216
The family has handsome genes,
so the baby is looking good.

00:16:57.300 --> 00:16:58.676
Good genes!

00:16:59.802 --> 00:17:04.641
But hearing her talk,
brings me unpleasant memories.

00:17:06.601 --> 00:17:09.479
I know this is,
this is bad but…

00:17:10.730 --> 00:17:12.857
The language scares him.

00:18:02.782 --> 00:18:04.612
Hello?

00:19:34.772 --> 00:19:37.316
Dad, what took you so
long to tell me and Jason?

00:19:37.752 --> 00:19:42.715
I didn't know how you…
How everyone was gonna take it.

00:19:43.216 --> 00:19:46.719
Because this is not
good for the family now.

00:19:46.803 --> 00:19:49.472
All of a sudden you
got another brother.

00:19:49.555 --> 00:19:51.557
How could it not be good?

00:19:51.582 --> 00:19:53.503
What is your thinking?
How can it not be good?

00:19:53.527 --> 00:19:54.577
In the beginning…

00:19:54.602 --> 00:19:56.780
- You were afraid.
- These were his first thoughts…

00:19:56.805 --> 00:19:58.527
My thoughts were that
it's not gonna be good.

00:19:58.552 --> 00:19:59.703
I didn't think you guys…

00:19:59.728 --> 00:20:01.772
“Nah, this is not”, you know…

00:20:01.901 --> 00:20:04.946
Okay, well, we'll just move on
from that because I feel that

00:20:05.029 --> 00:20:07.532
it wasn't about me
and Jay rejecting.

00:20:07.615 --> 00:20:09.992
I really feel it
had to be with you

00:20:10.017 --> 00:20:13.896
actually swallowing the whole…
The whole thing now.

00:20:21.587 --> 00:20:23.840
The initial feeling was:

00:20:23.865 --> 00:20:25.802
“I don't want to
be part of this”,

00:20:25.826 --> 00:20:27.410
you know… Another sibling?

00:20:27.552 --> 00:20:31.931
It can't be, I can't…
This cannot be.

00:20:32.014 --> 00:20:33.725
But…

00:20:34.308 --> 00:20:36.853
It has to be.

00:20:38.229 --> 00:20:42.567
I came to the agreement that…

00:20:42.650 --> 00:20:44.652
There's no other way.

00:20:44.736 --> 00:20:47.739
We move forward and we
move forward as a family.

00:20:47.822 --> 00:20:53.244
We've always stuck together,
regardless of our differences…

00:20:53.327 --> 00:20:55.621
And this is no different.

00:20:55.997 --> 00:20:57.948
There is an Amerasian program

00:20:57.973 --> 00:21:01.315
to bring these babies
home from the war.

00:21:01.502 --> 00:21:02.879
So…

00:21:03.421 --> 00:21:06.174
We're gonna get…
We're gonna get him here.

00:25:13.713 --> 00:25:17.016
The first time my brother Sang
reached out to you and said:

00:25:17.040 --> 00:25:18.134
“Can you help me?”

00:25:18.217 --> 00:25:19.385
Yeah.

00:25:20.803 --> 00:25:23.806
Did you think you're gonna
actually find his real father?

00:25:23.831 --> 00:25:26.542
No, I said to him that
I will try my best.

00:25:26.567 --> 00:25:29.195
And you know what? In Vietnam,

00:25:30.396 --> 00:25:34.817
we have a special
culture for Vietnamese.

00:25:34.842 --> 00:25:37.873
The father means everything.

00:25:38.946 --> 00:25:43.743
If you have no father,
your life means nothing.

00:25:43.826 --> 00:25:49.498
That's why Sang always, always
wanted to find his father.

00:25:49.947 --> 00:25:52.825
How is Sang's family?

00:25:56.315 --> 00:26:00.903
Yeah, his wife and
his grandson are okay.

00:26:01.385 --> 00:26:02.887
But…

00:26:03.471 --> 00:26:05.139
His daughter…

00:26:05.730 --> 00:26:08.274
Nah… How do you say…?

00:26:08.350 --> 00:26:10.478
She's a drug user.

00:26:10.561 --> 00:26:13.898
- That's why Sang and…
- That's his daughter…?

00:26:13.981 --> 00:26:15.357
Yeah, his daughter.

00:26:16.317 --> 00:26:18.694
His daughter left the baby.

00:26:18.719 --> 00:26:22.806
So Sang and his wife take
care of the grandson.

00:26:23.758 --> 00:26:25.134
Okay?

00:26:29.263 --> 00:26:31.682
Sang just told me: “Hung,

00:26:31.707 --> 00:26:36.414
I hope all of you there
are safe and healthy.”

00:26:37.755 --> 00:26:40.411
Everybody is healthy here…

00:26:41.884 --> 00:26:44.303
Um…
But dad… Is not very healthy.

00:26:46.244 --> 00:26:47.490
Father not healthy.

00:26:47.515 --> 00:26:49.678
He had a heart attack.

00:26:58.190 --> 00:27:00.778
He can eat or drink something?

00:27:02.780 --> 00:27:06.784
Don't worry… Don't worry.
He's gonna be… alive.

00:27:13.648 --> 00:27:14.769
Tell him:

00:27:14.793 --> 00:27:17.503
“Don't worry, we're gonna
take good care of our father.”

00:27:27.847 --> 00:27:28.909
Sang says:

00:27:28.933 --> 00:27:32.143
“I would love to thank you
for you and your wife”,

00:27:32.168 --> 00:27:36.047
who can take good
care of his father.

00:27:36.188 --> 00:27:38.607
Because he can not
be there right now,

00:27:38.632 --> 00:27:42.502
but he will hopefully be
there as soon as possible.

00:27:43.736 --> 00:27:47.659
I can't…
There's nothing I can say.

00:31:30.047 --> 00:31:31.590
“Hello”.

00:31:40.099 --> 00:31:43.268
- Hello.
- Hello, who are you?

00:31:43.352 --> 00:31:44.674
I am Sang.

00:31:46.996 --> 00:31:50.082
- How are you?
- I am Sang.

00:32:00.168 --> 00:32:02.704
“You look very nice”.

00:32:02.788 --> 00:32:04.540
Ve-ry.

00:32:04.623 --> 00:32:06.125
Nice.

00:32:06.208 --> 00:32:07.418
Nice.

00:32:13.590 --> 00:32:15.300
- You look…
- You look…

00:32:15.384 --> 00:32:16.677
Very…

00:32:18.804 --> 00:32:20.097
Nice.

00:32:52.004 --> 00:32:54.006
- Dad.
- All right.

00:32:55.090 --> 00:32:56.925
- Yeah, time.
- Okay.

00:33:01.597 --> 00:33:03.081
Why do you think you're wobbly?

00:33:03.105 --> 00:33:04.975
What time did you go
to bed last night?

00:33:05.809 --> 00:33:08.979
- Are you tired?
- No, I went to…

00:33:09.062 --> 00:33:12.524
I don't know. It must have
been around 11 o'clock.

00:33:12.549 --> 00:33:14.885
That was good.
Right after your pills.

00:33:15.027 --> 00:33:17.946
Yeah, 11 o'clock.

00:33:48.685 --> 00:33:53.232
Sang has the application in,
and…

00:33:53.315 --> 00:33:57.152
Sang is at a very
fragile state of…

00:33:57.236 --> 00:34:00.280
Approval for the application,
because

00:34:00.364 --> 00:34:03.200
there were some mistakes that
were made in the beginning…

00:34:03.225 --> 00:34:05.602
And if we make
any more mistakes,

00:34:05.634 --> 00:34:09.305
we will actually lose
his window of opportunity,

00:34:09.498 --> 00:34:13.669
and then he will be banned
from being able to apply again.

00:34:14.795 --> 00:34:16.421
Oh, man…

00:34:19.174 --> 00:34:22.636
I hope that he's
gonna come here

00:34:22.719 --> 00:34:25.252
and he's gonna have a good, long
life.

00:34:25.277 --> 00:34:27.227
That's what I'm thinking.

00:34:27.558 --> 00:34:31.895
That is a nutshell of
what all this is about.

00:34:31.979 --> 00:34:35.607
It's about a man that's been
searching for his father.

00:34:37.276 --> 00:34:41.154
We're just side people
in the whole thing.

00:34:41.238 --> 00:34:42.954
Like the carrots,
maybe he doesn't want.

00:34:42.978 --> 00:34:44.783
It's a man searching
for his father…

00:34:44.866 --> 00:34:46.368
And you're it.

00:34:48.036 --> 00:34:52.082
There's nothing that needs to be
done, but you just stay alive.

00:34:54.710 --> 00:35:00.507
I'm so happy and excited,
thrilled… To…

00:35:01.296 --> 00:35:02.674
To be his father.

00:35:02.698 --> 00:35:05.384
And I appreciate
him so much now.

00:35:05.804 --> 00:35:07.598
More than ever, because…

00:35:07.681 --> 00:35:11.217
The suffering that he went
through, you know…

00:35:11.241 --> 00:35:12.895
He experienced.

00:35:13.186 --> 00:35:17.649
A person shouldn't
experience that.

00:35:18.358 --> 00:35:20.068
Never.

00:35:29.578 --> 00:35:33.290
I'm just glad that he found me,
you know?

00:36:51.451 --> 00:36:53.620
That's Jason.

00:36:53.645 --> 00:36:56.064
You… And Bronco.

00:37:01.712 --> 00:37:04.193
What do you think you're
gonna wanna talk to Sang about

00:37:04.218 --> 00:37:05.357
when he comes?

00:37:05.382 --> 00:37:08.176
What are your thinking things?

00:37:10.220 --> 00:37:13.515
- I don't know, you know.
- You were saying before, how…

00:37:14.808 --> 00:37:17.978
You didn't have your
dad around raising you.

00:37:18.061 --> 00:37:20.939
Sang didn't have
his dad raising him.

00:37:21.022 --> 00:37:23.275
And now I'm just
learning also that…

00:37:23.358 --> 00:37:27.696
He's hoping that he could be
a good father to his daughter,

00:37:27.721 --> 00:37:30.140
but he never had no raising.

00:37:31.074 --> 00:37:35.509
I didn't have no proper raising
with a father,

00:37:35.533 --> 00:37:37.497
it was just my mom.

00:37:38.143 --> 00:37:43.517
She never really hugged
me or I hugged her.

00:37:43.920 --> 00:37:47.507
Like I called her
“Delia” all my life,

00:37:47.591 --> 00:37:49.342
never called her “Mom”.

00:37:50.260 --> 00:37:52.846
My father never lived with us.

00:37:52.929 --> 00:37:55.941
I remember only one
time in my whole life,

00:37:55.965 --> 00:37:58.018
in the middle of the night,

00:37:58.101 --> 00:38:01.229
I heard him knocking on
the door trying to get in.

00:38:01.254 --> 00:38:04.424
He wanted to come in but my
mother wouldn't let him in.

00:38:05.050 --> 00:38:09.721
And I'm telling her:
“Please, let him in.”

00:38:11.531 --> 00:38:15.685
And she would not let
him in for nothing.

00:38:17.412 --> 00:38:20.081
I felt kind of bad, you know.

00:38:21.166 --> 00:38:24.377
But she wouldn't let him in.

00:41:32.315 --> 00:41:33.817
Hello.

00:41:33.900 --> 00:41:35.735
How are you?

00:41:35.819 --> 00:41:37.153
I am…

00:41:37.654 --> 00:41:41.157
I am Sang. Thank you.

00:41:42.534 --> 00:41:44.494
I am Sang.

00:42:14.816 --> 00:42:17.819
Sang wants to know
if his father is OK.

00:42:17.902 --> 00:42:19.863
- He is good! Look at him!
- Good.

00:42:21.489 --> 00:42:24.367
I'm good.
I'm here. I'm really happy.

00:42:24.451 --> 00:42:26.077
We're together.

00:42:30.915 --> 00:42:35.336
I know that “Torres”
is not even a…

00:42:35.361 --> 00:42:39.282
Popular name considering
the Vietnamese.

00:42:39.424 --> 00:42:40.800
But…

00:42:40.884 --> 00:42:44.888
You've got a last name
now: “Sang Torres”.

00:42:44.971 --> 00:42:47.932
You have a new
name: Sang Torres!

00:42:54.647 --> 00:42:56.399
I am…

00:42:59.486 --> 00:43:01.654
I am American.

00:43:01.738 --> 00:43:03.364
American.

00:44:22.861 --> 00:44:28.908
INTERNATIONAL ORGANIZATION
FOR MIGRATION (IOM)

00:49:59.297 --> 00:50:01.883
At least we know this is
where they're coming, right?

00:50:01.908 --> 00:50:03.336
This is where they come,

00:50:03.360 --> 00:50:05.328
I already checked
with everybody.

00:50:09.165 --> 00:50:11.792
I have a family member
who doesn't speak English,

00:50:11.876 --> 00:50:13.295
can't read English, nothing.

00:50:13.320 --> 00:50:15.382
Is there anybody that's gonna
point him to this direction,

00:50:15.407 --> 00:50:16.146
because…

00:50:16.172 --> 00:50:17.590
That flight landed

00:50:17.615 --> 00:50:19.484
and I saw people coming
out from that flight…

00:50:19.509 --> 00:50:21.761
And I don't see my brother…

00:50:23.638 --> 00:50:24.900
So that woman right there

00:50:24.924 --> 00:50:26.849
just told me to go
there a little bit.

00:50:27.808 --> 00:50:30.019
- Does he have a phone on him?
- No!

00:50:30.044 --> 00:50:32.546
- Okay, I'm just asking.
- No.

00:50:40.029 --> 00:50:41.739
I got a question for you.

00:50:41.764 --> 00:50:42.726
What is that?

00:50:42.750 --> 00:50:45.434
Sorry, I didn't do a great sign.

00:50:45.576 --> 00:50:47.245
I'm sure he can read it….

00:50:48.329 --> 00:50:49.997
There he is, there he is!

00:50:51.332 --> 00:50:52.750
Nelson!

00:51:03.875 --> 00:51:05.001
I'm glad…

00:51:05.179 --> 00:51:07.848
Face to face. I'm glad.

00:51:18.442 --> 00:51:21.279
I'm glad we finally…

00:51:21.304 --> 00:51:24.181
We meet, together.

00:51:25.283 --> 00:51:26.975
Okay.

00:51:39.964 --> 00:51:42.008
You're looking good.

00:51:42.091 --> 00:51:43.926
You're looking good.

00:51:50.850 --> 00:51:53.561
That's your brother…

00:52:01.068 --> 00:52:03.154
He was probably lost.

00:52:03.237 --> 00:52:05.698
He got lost,
he said he got lost down there.

00:52:09.243 --> 00:52:10.536
ID…?

00:52:38.189 --> 00:52:39.690
Jay is coming.

00:52:39.774 --> 00:52:41.025
That's my truck.

00:52:45.196 --> 00:52:47.490
Look, look, look… Look at him!

00:52:52.635 --> 00:52:54.387
That's great.

00:53:27.780 --> 00:53:30.282
“I am hung… I am hungry.”

00:53:30.366 --> 00:53:31.659
- “Hungry”.
- Good.

00:53:31.742 --> 00:53:33.244
“I am hungry.”

00:53:34.453 --> 00:53:36.414
Everything you need.

00:53:36.914 --> 00:53:38.374
Hung.

00:53:39.625 --> 00:53:41.210
What's goin'…?

00:53:42.378 --> 00:53:44.338
Hung,
what is he trying to tell me?

00:53:54.104 --> 00:53:55.249
What's he saying?

00:53:55.391 --> 00:53:58.269
- Hot weather.
- It's hot.

00:53:58.769 --> 00:53:59.979
It's hot.

00:54:07.361 --> 00:54:08.696
Food…

00:54:45.274 --> 00:54:48.652
- Nelson…
- No, I'm good.

00:54:48.736 --> 00:54:51.655
- Dad?
- I'm good. I'm good.

00:54:51.739 --> 00:54:53.407
Just eat one. Eat one.

00:54:53.491 --> 00:54:55.201
Eat one. Make him feel good.

00:54:55.284 --> 00:54:56.869
Eat one.

00:54:56.952 --> 00:54:58.996
Alright. Just one.

00:55:07.129 --> 00:55:09.548
Chicken, beef.

00:55:24.922 --> 00:55:26.779
No, we ate.

00:55:30.653 --> 00:55:33.447
- If this is the first burger…
- He's not gonna be happy.

00:55:38.939 --> 00:55:41.442
So, it's getting late,
so we're gonna go.

00:55:44.783 --> 00:55:49.383
Sang, we're leaving. Go home.

00:56:00.933 --> 00:56:04.186
You're finally home, my son.

00:56:11.861 --> 00:56:14.947
Great. Finally home.

00:56:15.030 --> 00:56:16.626
You're here.

00:57:59.677 --> 00:58:01.428
This is pretty good.

00:58:01.512 --> 00:58:03.555
- Good, right?
- Yeah.

00:58:04.056 --> 00:58:05.307
Thank you.

00:58:07.893 --> 00:58:09.687
How long have you been here?

00:58:09.770 --> 00:58:11.647
- Almost a year.
- Where are you from?

00:58:18.202 --> 00:58:19.328
You wanna sit down?

00:58:19.405 --> 00:58:22.074
This guy speaks really
good English, right?

00:58:37.756 --> 00:58:39.258
He's saying that
he's really glad

00:58:39.283 --> 00:58:43.245
he's finally having a meal
with his family in America.

00:58:43.270 --> 00:58:45.898
It really warms his heart.

00:59:01.362 --> 00:59:03.881
The father figure is the most
important

00:59:03.906 --> 00:59:05.492
for a child in Vietnam.

00:59:05.576 --> 00:59:09.038
Even the mountains, the sky
couldn't compare to the figure…

00:59:09.121 --> 00:59:10.581
- The father figure.
- Right.

00:59:11.165 --> 00:59:15.878
He wanted to know his father.
Meet his father. That's why…

00:59:15.961 --> 00:59:19.840
That was the most important
thing in his life.

00:59:19.923 --> 00:59:21.050
Who's my father?

00:59:21.133 --> 00:59:24.344
During the war, the American
soldiers were there.

00:59:24.428 --> 00:59:28.182
There was a lot of babies
born during the war…

00:59:28.265 --> 00:59:30.934
Vietnam War,
probably Korean War.

00:59:31.018 --> 00:59:33.812
It always happens.
He's only one.

00:59:34.480 --> 00:59:36.607
One. And we found him.

00:59:36.749 --> 00:59:41.170
There's thousands.
They can't find their parents.

00:59:41.195 --> 00:59:45.574
They can't find somebody so they
can come to the United States.

00:59:46.575 --> 00:59:48.274
We're gonna help him…

00:59:48.298 --> 00:59:51.789
Get him a job,
help him get places to live…

00:59:51.872 --> 00:59:56.043
And then work on getting
his wife and daughter here.

01:02:03.712 --> 01:02:05.923
Table.

01:02:08.050 --> 01:02:09.676
Table.

01:02:15.432 --> 01:02:17.226
- Table.
- Yes.

01:02:19.186 --> 01:02:22.231
Yes. Table… Chair.

01:03:30.549 --> 01:03:32.217
How are you? I'm Mel.

01:03:32.301 --> 01:03:37.014
It's so nice to have you
helping with my family

01:03:38.181 --> 01:03:39.641
and my brother Sang.

01:03:39.725 --> 01:03:42.269
- You're a lawyer?
- No, I'm not a lawyer.

01:03:42.352 --> 01:03:45.814
I'm just helping out
with the translation

01:03:45.839 --> 01:03:48.508
and whatever that
he needs help with.

01:03:56.867 --> 01:03:58.929
He said that when
he got off the plane

01:03:58.954 --> 01:04:01.671
he was looking for
you everywhere.

01:04:02.622 --> 01:04:03.999
But he didn't see you.

01:04:04.082 --> 01:04:07.169
But he was afraid to ask
what happened to you.

01:04:07.252 --> 01:04:10.005
They did not tell me,
because I feel

01:04:10.088 --> 01:04:11.506
they don't want me involved

01:04:11.558 --> 01:04:13.518
and they weren't gonna let
me stay in their house.

01:04:14.301 --> 01:04:17.679
You know, Sang shared
with me that he is sad,

01:04:17.763 --> 01:04:22.351
because they haven't invited
him over to their house.

01:04:22.434 --> 01:04:25.103
Well, they're not very fluffy,
loving people.

01:04:25.187 --> 01:04:28.023
Neither brother is.
Neither was my dad.

01:04:28.106 --> 01:04:33.737
My dad as a child he was not
loving and cuddly or hugging us.

01:04:33.762 --> 01:04:37.265
I've never even ate
in my brother's house.

01:04:38.492 --> 01:04:42.204
Tell Sang, December 12th
I'm supposed to be there.

01:04:42.229 --> 01:04:43.772
Okay.

01:04:43.797 --> 01:04:45.131
Bye.

01:05:21.794 --> 01:05:23.027
Hello.

01:07:51.893 --> 01:07:55.486
My understanding
is that in Vietnam,

01:07:55.510 --> 01:07:58.692
you guys all live in
the same apartment.

01:07:58.785 --> 01:08:00.735
You live together very close.

01:08:00.819 --> 01:08:04.239
Here in America,
we live apart from each other.

01:08:05.031 --> 01:08:08.076
But it doesn't mean that
I'm not thinking about you,

01:08:08.159 --> 01:08:11.371
I'm always thinking about
you and your well-being.

01:08:24.259 --> 01:08:27.154
My parents separated
when I was a kid,

01:08:27.178 --> 01:08:29.681
so maybe that's the reason why…

01:08:29.764 --> 01:08:32.851
I was 9 years old when
my parents broke up.

01:08:33.393 --> 01:08:37.939
And then I just lived with my
mom. I saw him once in a while.

01:08:38.023 --> 01:08:44.195
We know he loves us, but we
don't get a lot of affection.

01:08:44.279 --> 01:08:48.491
Like the emotional…
That some people go through…

01:08:48.575 --> 01:08:51.536
“I love you, I hug you all
day long”, and all this stuff.

01:08:52.287 --> 01:08:54.831
Our family was never like that.

01:08:54.914 --> 01:08:58.627
I guess, I had another life.

01:08:59.377 --> 01:09:03.506
I was practically living
with another woman.

01:09:07.594 --> 01:09:12.307
It's the only time I regret it…

01:09:12.932 --> 01:09:16.353
Not being of any
help to your mother.

01:09:22.192 --> 01:09:25.445
I was always heartbroken.

01:09:28.365 --> 01:09:32.577
I found God,
or maybe God found me.

01:09:32.661 --> 01:09:36.539
So, my attitude changed…

01:09:37.040 --> 01:09:40.085
towards life. Completely.

01:09:42.253 --> 01:09:47.842
I started… Being more
concerned for my family.

01:15:34.022 --> 01:15:36.607
Can't believe you're here.

01:15:41.195 --> 01:15:43.698
- Hi Melissa.
- Hey.

01:15:46.868 --> 01:15:50.788
He wants to know if…
Have you told Dad?

01:15:50.872 --> 01:15:53.207
No.

01:15:53.291 --> 01:15:56.127
Tell him tomorrow I plan on…

01:15:56.919 --> 01:15:59.964
Like doing a special mission
to go capture my Dad.

01:16:00.048 --> 01:16:03.092
I'm gonna go get my Dad out
of my little brother's house.

01:16:03.176 --> 01:16:05.595
And bring Daddy here.

01:16:14.520 --> 01:16:17.398
What a tattoo,
he's got a tattoo on his arm,

01:16:17.482 --> 01:16:19.484
he got a tattoo on his chest.

01:16:19.567 --> 01:16:21.027
What else he's got?

01:16:21.569 --> 01:16:22.987
No more?

01:16:23.448 --> 01:16:25.575
Wow. I got this one…

01:16:26.282 --> 01:16:27.867
And this one.

01:16:28.451 --> 01:16:30.244
And then this one.

01:16:30.995 --> 01:16:33.039
And then a little raccoon.

01:16:37.960 --> 01:16:41.547
What's the one on his arm?
Is it in Vietnamese?

01:17:01.359 --> 01:17:05.196
It's the sadness of his life.

01:17:07.534 --> 01:17:12.164
“No father,
no mother, no home.”

01:17:19.876 --> 01:17:22.504
You look different
than the video.

01:17:22.588 --> 01:17:25.633
You're thinner,
and you're darker.

01:17:29.971 --> 01:17:35.560
Her skin is so dark,
so we're truly siblings.

01:18:31.741 --> 01:18:33.562
You didn't even take
your morning pills.

01:18:33.586 --> 01:18:35.077
I did. I take them already.

01:18:35.161 --> 01:18:37.210
This is for tomorrow
or the next day.

01:18:37.234 --> 01:18:38.539
They're both here.

01:18:38.623 --> 01:18:40.791
Hello.

01:18:43.836 --> 01:18:46.255
- How are you?
- Okay. How're you doing?

01:18:48.132 --> 01:18:49.717
Yeah.

01:18:58.100 --> 01:19:00.061
Nice seeing you.

01:19:03.940 --> 01:19:06.692
Working hard?

01:19:08.361 --> 01:19:10.363
Working hard?

01:19:10.446 --> 01:19:14.158
- I will tell him.
- Yeah, translate that.

01:19:32.343 --> 01:19:34.341
I work very hard, Dad.

01:19:37.055 --> 01:19:40.576
One, two, three,

01:19:40.601 --> 01:19:45.064
four, five, seven.

01:19:45.147 --> 01:19:48.567
- Eight.
- Okay, now I teach you.

01:19:49.527 --> 01:19:51.862
Watch.
This is a five-dollar bill.

01:19:51.887 --> 01:19:54.473
We count by five so: five, ten…

01:19:54.615 --> 01:19:59.537
Fifteen, twenty.
Thirty… Thirty-five, forty,

01:19:59.620 --> 01:20:02.248
forty-five, fifty, fifty-five.

01:20:02.331 --> 01:20:05.793
Sixty, sixty-five…
Seventy dollars.

01:20:05.876 --> 01:20:07.962
Dad is very proud of you.

01:20:24.437 --> 01:20:25.896
That's awesome.

01:20:48.002 --> 01:20:50.463
How do you feel about
going to therapy again?

01:20:52.256 --> 01:20:56.052
First of all… What am I
gaining with the therapy?

01:20:56.635 --> 01:20:58.721
I don't say much there.

01:20:58.804 --> 01:21:01.724
That's because you
don't speak your truth.

01:21:29.418 --> 01:21:32.505
That doctor saw us pretty quick.
Even the lady right now

01:21:32.588 --> 01:21:36.425
making the new appointment
says: “Wow, that was quick.”

01:21:36.509 --> 01:21:40.346
Right, but it was normal.
It was, you know…

01:21:40.429 --> 01:21:43.024
I don't know about
so much normal, Dad.

01:21:43.048 --> 01:21:45.643
I think you've been
holding in a lot.

01:21:45.726 --> 01:21:48.104
Like that guy,
the thing we just saw.

01:21:48.187 --> 01:21:52.483
He had 230 kills
in World War II.

01:21:52.566 --> 01:21:55.194
How many kills did you have?
Do we know? We don't know.

01:21:55.277 --> 01:21:56.987
- I don't know.
- Okay.

01:21:57.071 --> 01:22:00.074
I would think that when
you're killing somebody…

01:22:00.157 --> 01:22:01.617
That's gotta affect you.

01:22:01.642 --> 01:22:04.104
You were shooting bullets, were
you not? Or were you shooting…

01:22:04.129 --> 01:22:05.861
I was shooting bullets, I mean…

01:22:05.885 --> 01:22:07.674
Were you throwing bubblegum?

01:22:09.541 --> 01:22:11.022
Right, you didn't get to see it.

01:22:11.047 --> 01:22:12.294
I didn't get to see it…

01:22:12.378 --> 01:22:14.380
I mean, maybe other guys, but…

01:22:14.463 --> 01:22:17.258
Mommy told me that when
you first came home

01:22:17.341 --> 01:22:19.635
you would wake up choking her,
screaming,

01:22:19.718 --> 01:22:22.471
then sweats, then screaming.

01:22:22.555 --> 01:22:25.766
That's what mommy said, that
that was affecting your brain.

01:22:25.850 --> 01:22:28.769
Why can't you just say it did?

01:22:28.853 --> 01:22:31.021
You wanna make believe
that you're Superman.

01:22:31.105 --> 01:22:34.066
No, I was strong minded.

01:22:35.609 --> 01:22:39.155
You sure you're just strong
and not hiding it all?

01:22:46.162 --> 01:22:50.791
You see, I successfully
completed the training.

01:22:50.875 --> 01:22:55.296
I was assigned to
heavy weapons platoon.

01:22:55.379 --> 01:22:59.216
- I was… you know.
- Just go like that.

01:22:59.884 --> 01:23:02.011
GUN. No, not thumbs up.

01:23:02.359 --> 01:23:04.695
- That's a…
- Shooting.

01:23:05.356 --> 01:23:06.454
Where's the…?

01:23:06.478 --> 01:23:08.225
I was in a heavy
weapons platoon.

01:23:08.309 --> 01:23:10.352
- Shooting, Dad.
- Yeah.

01:23:11.335 --> 01:23:15.005
I volunteered. See? Me.

01:23:20.196 --> 01:23:21.947
Vietnam.

01:23:23.699 --> 01:23:29.163
M16. That was my weapon,
always with me.

01:23:29.246 --> 01:23:33.000
I had to sleep with that weapon.
Yeah.

01:23:36.003 --> 01:23:37.880
M16.

01:23:37.963 --> 01:23:40.132
I explained it to him.

01:23:42.801 --> 01:23:46.514
I wonder what he's feeling
when you're the military

01:23:46.597 --> 01:23:48.951
and you're there to defend,

01:23:48.976 --> 01:23:51.927
but you're killing
the other Vietnamese.

01:23:52.645 --> 01:23:55.129
And then you're here
and he's here with you

01:23:55.154 --> 01:23:57.366
because he's also Vietnamese.

01:23:58.067 --> 01:24:00.293
It's gotta be hard.

01:24:09.912 --> 01:24:14.500
When I left Vietnam,
you were born.

01:24:15.209 --> 01:24:19.046
I can't even imagine
how you actually…

01:24:19.880 --> 01:24:22.174
You survived all of this.

01:24:22.258 --> 01:24:26.679
I was battling a different war,
than you were battling.

01:24:28.722 --> 01:24:33.102
I just wanna know how you felt.

01:25:01.505 --> 01:25:05.509
He said he doesn't want
to think about the war.

01:25:05.593 --> 01:25:09.615
It cost a lot of pain and
suffering

01:25:09.639 --> 01:25:12.474
for him and his mother.

01:25:25.613 --> 01:25:28.407
I don't want him to
feel sad anymore.

01:25:28.432 --> 01:25:31.477
You can't stop him,
so don't say it.

01:25:31.619 --> 01:25:33.078
It doesn't matter.

01:25:33.162 --> 01:25:35.497
You don't tell him he
doesn't need to be sad.

01:25:35.522 --> 01:25:39.401
You tell him: “It's okay.”
It's okay that he has emotions.

01:25:40.002 --> 01:25:41.846
But I don't want him
to feel that way.

01:25:41.870 --> 01:25:43.594
Dad,
it doesn't matter what you want.

01:25:43.619 --> 01:25:44.725
I don't care.

01:25:44.750 --> 01:25:46.938
Well, he doesn't care
about what you're saying.

01:25:46.963 --> 01:25:47.991
I don't want him to…

01:25:48.016 --> 01:25:49.803
He doesn't care what
you're saying, Dad.

01:25:49.828 --> 01:25:54.375
- You're hurting his feelings.
- I want him to feel…

01:25:54.516 --> 01:25:55.976
Happy. Not…

01:25:56.060 --> 01:25:58.228
- Dad, you're ridiculous.
- Not sad.

01:25:58.312 --> 01:26:00.022
You're ridiculous.

01:26:19.667 --> 01:26:23.295
This is just to show you
my appreciation for you.

01:26:23.379 --> 01:26:26.715
I love you and everything.

01:26:26.740 --> 01:26:30.069
And I loved your mother.

01:26:31.136 --> 01:26:35.808
And I'm just so… I feel so sad…

01:26:35.891 --> 01:26:38.936
She can't be here.

01:26:39.019 --> 01:26:40.896
But…

01:26:41.383 --> 01:26:44.761
I wanna do whatever I can

01:26:45.359 --> 01:26:48.821
to be here for you.

01:26:49.238 --> 01:26:50.406
So…

01:26:52.574 --> 01:26:56.954
You don't have to worry.
Here's a little dedication…

01:26:57.788 --> 01:27:00.791
A little dedication
from the military.

01:27:08.799 --> 01:27:13.178
- Thank you.
- God bless you.

01:29:05.300 --> 01:29:07.636
What do you want for Christmas?